hehehe what ……a wedding?

Well it was supposed to be the wedding of the year and it happened… I guess this 19 year old kid [not man] was so desperate that he finally tied the knot. He had supposedly proposed to 2 different girls and they both turned him down and also the last one he asked her to marry him and if only she would say yes and he would NOT go to India to be with the one he was going to marry just before a few days to the marriage ceremony….

Anyway, I have been busy this whole week and have been making cakes and stuff with my uncle being here and jenny is here on holidays for a week…I am off to Dar tomorrow. Here are some pics… also me and my sis and mum in a few photos

    

Market Pals

Some photos of my market pals… some from whom I buy fruits and vegetables from…

I have been busy….

Some cakes and some spicy stuff….

Birthday Cake

 

Chocolate Birthday Cake

Before……

…and after…..

Potato Rolls stuffed with mashed peas and seasoned with sesame seeds…the stuffing is pasted like jam on a Swiss roll and then rolled and lightly floured and then egg batter and breadcrumbs and then fried in shallow oil.

This is what emails are for LOL!!

This is what I got on my mail today and would I really care about it? I mean if it is to happen then well ok… but then so many things have been predicted,… and where do we stand?

MMMMMmmmmmmm ok   !!!!

 

 22 July 2009 another Tsunami..

HOPE IT IS NOT TRUE BUT DO TAKE CARE  !!


I have just received the following message which I don’t know the source of the message and not sure the credibility of the content, but just beware.
Here is the content on the message:
“Hello there.  I just wanted 2 let you know that please stay away from the beaches all around in the month of July.  There is a prediction that there will be another tsunami hitting on July 22^nd.  It is also when there will be sun eclipse.  Predicted that it is going 2 be really bad and countries like Malaysia (Sabah & Sarawak), Singapore, Maldives, Australia, Mauritius, Si Lanka, India, Indonesia, Philippines Tanzania, Kenya are going 2 be badly hit.  Please try and stay away from the beaches in July.

Attached a photo for u.

Age…..?

What happens when someone asks you, what’s a gay man’s sell by date?

I was talking to a one good friend of mine and he told me that gay man’s sell by date is the age of 30 and to be honest I felt that way too when I turned 30.

When I look at someone who is my age and is trying to hook young 20 something men and trying to look young and acting NOT his age I feel pity and think that it could have been me. I do look at young men and feel lively but have never [oops] made a pass [well once I did and I did regret] …. anyway, it seems that where are all the gay men when you want them for friendship? They all tend to look the other way when you tell them you want to be friends with them and they end thinking wow, this guy wants me to hope into bed with him right away right now….. wow what a life!!!! Does age really matter if I was to remain as I was 30 or not? Why cannot we stop time or age in that case and be what we want to be…? Ahhh the wonders of the science in near future… give me a staying young steroid shot….

On other line…..I think I should stop looking at men as if I want to bed them, but the funny thing is I look at women at the same way although I do not want to bed them, I end up looking stupid in my mind… I look at boobies and stare at women’s butt/ass, chest, face, legs as if I am interested in them. One gal in particular, a physiotherapist told me that I always ogle at her, well she is chubby and short and I look at her as I want to bed her.. but that's not the case, I love to watch women in different shapes and sizes and know how they carry themselves around…anyway that’s a discussion for another day. Ahh but to be honest, if I had a nude woman and a nude man standing in front of me, I would definitely choose a man, women are to be looked at with clothes on, well for me some piece of clothing is a must….and so that proves that I am a gay man after all… no doubt……!!!!

 

This is what I came across when I was reading an old book and used this as my page marker… LOL

 

Yes that's me some decades ago….

This is how I look now… mmm what a change…

well what a day!!!

well I get a message on my mobile and this fellah starts a conversation that he wants to know me and all that dirty talk I ignored him and then he tried calling me and so I told him to to grow up and be honest so he told me who he was and he came online and we ended up chatting for 2 hours.

I get to know something more about him but all he talks is about his encounters and sexual conquests and so on. What amazes me is that he could be anyone and  who could be acting or pretending to be anyone and or whatever info he must be trying to get out of me. He did tell me a few things that may be genuine but I wonder, that in this world of Internet, what is true and what is false. Trouble is I get caught up in it at times and don't know what to believe in.

Anyway here are a few pics that I took last week... of Iringa and the market.

 

Mangoes

Justin and his Potatoes

Red Beans and Green Peppers

Sweet Plantains

Lovely Pineapples

Jamat Street

Renovated Hassanali Brothers Old Building

From the Auto Sokoni Area

cake

here it is.. I forgot that I had already eaten one third that I remembered that I should have taken a pic...

Birth DAY

Well hitting 42 is not a big deal anymore and i thought it would be. Today after a long time I feel like I am me and not that 'other' person I used to be that is someone with issues and baggage. I guess I have come a long way from all that.
Haven't taken the day off although all over the world they celebrate this day as May day, well some countries they don't, and so am working as usual but half day due to a public holiday and will see what to do for the rest of the day... maybe sleep or just relax???
Anyway am not depressed on turning 42.... HAPPY BIRTHDAY to ME