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Well I can say a few meaningful things have happened in the last 4 weeks and and I didn’t know that they would happen, but they did. Last month on the 7th or the 8th of August, I met this wonderful guy, at a certain website that I frequent a lot and we started communicating, but the first thing he asked me [not in exact words], if I believed in a long distance relationship, and I said, why not, if we could work on it  then it would be possible, as long as there is certain understanding and we all know how taxing and stressful it can be when you cannot meet or feel or touch the other person. Anyway, we started with the 1st week and then on to the 2nd and the 3rd and now the 4th week finishes and we are passing the 1 month stage…. I guess we  have a long way to go and we learn about more about each other every day and  it’s a revelation. I know for some of you think that this is just a passing whim, but know I know and feel it… we both are not rushing into it and we have a lot to learn when being far away. We are in the same situation and and have similar understanding of life.

Ok more of that later, but I would like you folks to know him Paolo is his name and he has a beard and is 6 ft tall and he is lean and mean. Now why he chose me as a person to be with, I have no answer for that, but I know we have something magical and for you who feel cautious for him or me…. I will say that, let nature take it’s course and let it help us find ourselves where we want to be. Many of you think that internet friendship does not flourish and they eventually fade, but I wouldn’t know till I have tried it and felt it, right?

All in all, I know that we care for each other and have some special bond, that we both understand and feel.

Over the weekend, I had invited Dave and his girlfriend Kate and we had a meal and I had baked him a birthday cake [well a belated one] and here it is.