Conversations.....

Last week there was a wedding in town which I did not attend. There were so many reasons for me not going, and apart from that I did not want to mingle with people who I find it hard to communicate with and people who think more of themselves and have nothing better to talk about other then money, women and cars or in a similar nature that makes a man or women go for it in a conversation, GOSSIP LOL

I find it hard to go to weddings, funerals and well lots of occasions that include crying and places or parties where people are in a sombre mood and not communicative. I find it hard with people when a conversation veers to nothing and you are left staring at the ground going ' mm mm yes you are right.....' or ' yes, yes very true.....!!!'
Why do people find it hard to make a conversation that will help others and not make one look stupid? I have been in that situation and made a fool of myself, and am not ashamed to say that I find it hard sometimes to make a conversation with people who seem to be not interested or are bored with teh whole party situation and hence making the the conversation thing a big problem, I am sure there are many of us who will argue in a conversation to a point of hitting someone or get angry just because they feel or think they are right. I am up for anything that makes a whole conversation a learning point, be it experiences or something exciting or strange as long as it keeps the people around you enthralled and enjoying the talk with a lot of unanswered questions or sighing and thinking and wishing that one could have been there or trying to picture oneself being in such a situation where one experiences from what the speaker was talking about that particular subject........
Hard to understand, well next time when one is talking about an experience, try listening and feel what he or she is experiencing emotionally on that particular subject and feel....maybe you might be able to understand the conversation more better....