Friday, August 14, 2009

Cakes and stuff

Life can be a strange place and from what I have seen and know, I still take each day as it comes and live for the day, in this sense I mean, you never know what could turn out next and although we could persuade our minds and destiny, we can never actually know until it happens…. like if we are thinking of someone close and the the phone rings and suddenly it is that person….!

Or we could be thinking over and over again in our minds to want something and that thing happens, but until that happens and until that person calls, we all live for the moment and the day. It’s not easy to know how the sciences of our mind work but if we connect positive thoughts then we get positive energy and if we say no or don’t want, we end up with negative thoughts and negative energy that absorbs bad things and suddenly we come to a point of no return.

I was like that some few decades ago and now I realize, that going with the flow is the best that one could do, as long it’s a positive flow, and whenever you see a negative energy coming, then repel it with positive thoughts and calmness and see how it makes the bad vibes cower down…. tried that? well try it and see the difference….!!!!

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This was taken yesterday…… and the below ones are of this noon….

This is what i did this afternoon……

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Monday, August 10, 2009

Tattoos

Just as I was watching the Miami Ink series which I love, I still want to have a few more tattoos done on different parts of my body, and the interesting part is that I am confused on what to get. Sometimes it can be wings on my back or my horoscope sign on my shoulder neck area or couple of bands like black stripes on my wrists or something on my shin or ankles.... confusing and the problem is that there are no tattooists in Tanzania. But so much worth would be shocking people that I have a tattoo and a shocking one would be best...something like a phallic symbol LOL.....tattoocurly-aNew Picture (1).bmp

This below is mine….

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Sunday, August 9, 2009

Wow… a M. Jackson Khanga

would anyone like what we got today? Mum is a Michael Jackson fan and she just got this and she showed it to the house gals and they were like what????

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Saturday, August 8, 2009

My trip to Dar

well it’s been so hectic in dar and I had to finish some errands and get back to iringa, and the bus ride has been bad…. The road works are fixing up the roads and making a wider better motorways and so the journey takes less time but for the time being it takes one and a half hours more to go or get back. And on top of it all I get heat rash which are sweet to scratch but hell to feel later on…. so all in all there is always something to lose when travelling.

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Friday, August 7, 2009

Been a busy week...

Just when I thought I had to be online to write my blogs but had a real cool idea on to be able to blog offline...meaning that I can write when I am travelling or on the move and that makes it so worthwhile to be able to write from my mobile phone and not always on the computer....

Thursday, August 6, 2009

Marriage and what does it mean?

Well from what I understand…." marriage means is a social union or legal contract between individuals that creates kinship. It is an institution in which interpersonal relationships, usually intimate and sexual, are acknowledged by a variety of ways, depending on the culture or demographic. This union may also be called matrimony, while the ceremony that marks its beginning is usually called a wedding and the married status created is sometimes called wedlock.

People marry for many reasons, but usually one or more of the following: legal, social, emotional, and economical; the legal establishment of a nuclear family unit; the legal protection of children; public declaration of love.[1][2]

Marriage practices are very diverse across cultures and may take many forms, and are often formalized by a ceremony called a wedding.[3] The act of marriage usually creates normative or legal obligations between the individuals involved. In some societies these obligations also extend to certain family members of the married persons. Almost all cultures that recognize marriage also recognize adultery as a violation of the terms of marriage.[4]

External recognition can manifest in a variety of ways. Some examples include the state, a religious authority, or both. It is often viewed as a contract. Civil marriage is the legal concept of marriage as a governmental institution irrespective of religious affiliation, in accordance with marriage laws of the jurisdiction. If recognized by the state, by the religion(s) to which the parties belong or by society in general, the act of marriage changes the personal and social status of the individuals who enter into it. ‘’

Well to be honest, a friend of mine who was supposedly ‘gay’ is getting married today and it frightens me to know how one can change from being gay to straight and how this fine line between being gay or straight works. Are people who are bisexual more easy to understand or is just me who fails to understand what it actually means to be bisexual….? Am I afraid to lose my friend or be involved in a relationship where a man is married to a woman but has the hots for a man? I understand that some man marry for peer pressure and others have no choice due to being ostracized from their family or social gathering or anything similar.

This is what I came across today in CNN…

Programs to change gays to straights don't work, report says

Would people change and be what they shouldn’t be or what they want to be but can’t?I don’t know what situation I would have been in if I was forced to, but certainly I don’t want to be in his shoes….although I like my friend and am afraid of losing him and understanding that our friendship may not be on the same level anymore, and afraid of losing him but I guess am not judging him. He is doing what he wants to and is sure of that decision in life.

Monday, July 6, 2009

A weekend at Riverside Campsite

Well last week I had intended to have a lie in on a sunday but  my cousins Sameer, Rizwan, his wife and kid and mom were in iringa for a couple of days visiting so it was a great thing to show them around as Sameer came back after more then 13 years so it was quiet exciting for them to see places that had developed after they left.

Sameer just came back from Malaysia after finishing hi degree and now has started a job in Dar. Rizwan and Rishma have a lovely baby and all of them are doing good..Here are a few pics to know that we had fun…Noorani and Nabil returned after 6 years and they too were happy to have met their friends here in Iringa.

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